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Saying no is OK

Talkat SQLBits 2024 · 2024-03-19..03-23· [soft-skills]
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Addresses why saying no prevents burnout and gives concrete tactics: use time blocking and Pomodoro sprints, put every task in the calendar, apply the two‑minute rule, batch similar tasks, and use noise‑cancelling headphones to reduce open‑office distractions. Respond fast by acknowledge and appreciate, offer an alternative timeline or delegate, escalate unresolved priority conflicts to management/HR, and keep refusals private when possible. Claims these steps reduce missed deadlines and restore work‑life balance; they report improved productivity and fewer late‑hour emails when enforced.

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  1. 0:00Introduction
  2. 1:10Defining saying no and its contexts
  3. 3:37Fears around saying no
  4. 7:38Myths about saying no
  5. 9:28Consequences of always saying yes
  6. 13:01Priorities and goals
  7. 16:45Staying professional when declining
  8. 20:00Handling work requests
  9. 27:57Professional responses
  10. 30:05Jane’s real-life scenario
  11. 32:07Time management tips
  12. 40:53Reflecting and adjusting
  13. 42:17Closing and Q&A
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