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The Power of 'No'

Talkat RubyConf 2022 · 2022-11-29..12-01· [soft-skills]
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Central claim: mastering the two-letter word preserves time, reduces burnout, and protects values. Concrete tools: five decision questions (aligns with values, exploitation, goals, abuse, change course), quick tactics like let me check my schedule or asking for a rain check, and eight categorized ways to say no (complete sentence, referral, gracious, timing, reassess, etc.). A Toastmasters example shows saying yes creates extra stress even when the eventual outcome works. Practice cushions, direct language, and early honesty.

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  1. 0:00Start
  2. 5:37STAND FOR SOMETHING
  3. 6:28NO IS A CLEAR CHOICE
  4. 7:17RECOGNIZE OUR LIMITS
  5. 8:48CONSEQUENCES
  6. 11:53IT GIVES YOU POWER
  7. 16:49GIVE YOURSELF A CUSHION
  8. 17:41BE QUICK
  9. 21:09USE DIRECT LANGUAGE
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