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Code, Calm, and Control Stoicism in Software Engineering

Talkat Build Stuff 2025 · 2025-12-03..12-05· [soft-skills]
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Claims that Stoic practices cut stress, sharpen decisions, and reduce burnout by reframing what developers can control, with trichotomy of control and the classic dichotomy of control as the core model. Concrete techniques shown include negative visualization and doing a premortem before projects. Examples link code quality (in direct control) versus project success (only influence), and historical validation cites James Stockdale surviving seven years as a POW using Stoic methods. Practical, repeatable mental habits replace vague self‑help.

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  1. 0:00🚀 Build Stuff Conference – Get Your Tickets!
  2. 0:22Introduction: Stoicism Meets Software Engineering
  3. 2:10The Modern Developer’s Challenges & Mental Load
  4. 5:00The “Storm” of Tools, AI, and Constant Change
  5. 7:30Control vs. External Pressures Explained
  6. 10:15What is Stoicism? Core Philosophy Overview
  7. 13:40Famous Stoics & Their Lessons (Epictetus, Seneca, Marcus Aurelius)
  8. 17:10The Five Stoic Virtues & Their Meaning
  9. 20:30Dichotomy vs. Trichotomy of Control
  10. 23:10Practical Techniques: Negative Visualization & Premortems
  11. 25:40Applying Stoicism to Daily Engineering Work
  12. 27:00Final Reflection: Calm, Control & Living a Better Developer Life
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