Rewiring the Hidden Code That Runs Your Life

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Claims that five unconscious patterns — five unconscious wounds (rejection, abandonment, humiliation, betrayal, injustice) — silently drive burnout, perfectionism, control and team conflict and that awareness plus somatic work rewires them. Evidence includes a personal recovery from autoimmune burnout, a CEO case that revealed micromanagement from a betrayal wound, and a free inner debugging diagnostic plus an offered nervous system reset breathwork practice as the practical tools to shift behavior.

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1. 0:00🚀 Build Stuff Conference – Get Your Tickets!
2. 0:20Opening Reflection: Burnout, Conflict, and Feeling Not Good Enough
3. 2:00The Hidden Inner System That Shapes How You Show Up
4. 3:30Why Debugging Your Inner Code Matters as Much as Shipping Products
5. 5:10Nita’s Story: From High Achievement in Tech to Total Burnout
6. 8:20The Global Search for Healing and the Discovery of the Five Codes
7. 10:15The Five Core Wounds That Run Human Behavior
8. 11:40Rejection: Invisibility, Self-Rejection, and the Need to Belong
9. 15:00Abandonment: Overachieving, Overperforming, and Seeking Reassurance
10. 18:10Humiliation: Perfectionism, Shame, and Hiding Behind Performance
11. 21:10Betrayal: Control, Micromanagement, and the Fear of Trusting Others
12. 24:20Injustice: Rigidity, Rules, and the Pressure to Be Flawless
13. 27:00How These Wounds Shape Leadership, Team Dynamics, and Conflict
14. 29:10Why the Mask Is the Limitation—Not the Wound
15. 32:00Healing Through Awareness, Compassion, and Somatic Regulation
16. 35:10Closing Invitation: Inner Debugging, Breathwork, and Transformation

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