No Return: Beyond Transactions in Code and Life
summary
Argues a concrete claim: modeling workflows as all‑or‑nothing transactions is a fallacy and it breaks systems and lives, illustrated by two decades of building a software career, a big house and a failed marriage. Shows alternatives with actual tools and patterns: Transactional Fallacy, Elixir/actor model, Smalltalk and Erlang history, event sourcing and sagas, observability and resilience engineering. Cites a ~1,000‑person poll about lacking local support and recommends practices (event storming, backpressure, circuit breakers) you can adopt and measure.
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chapters (15)
- 0:00RUBYCONF 2019
- 0:45Dreams & Faith
- 4:14OBJECT-ORIENTED PROGRAMMING
- 7:43RETURN VALUES
- 10:18THE TRANSACTIONAL FALLACY
- 14:03AN ALTERNATIVE TO THE TRANSACTIONAL PERSPECTIVE
- 17:23LOOK FOR THE PROCESSES
- 18:56YOUR LIFE IS A NARRATIVE
- 19:46TRANSACTIONAL THINKING LEADS TO BRITTLE LIVES AND BRITTLE CODE
- 20:56PROGRAMMING IS APPLIED PHILOSOPHY
- 22:02A NARRATIVE HAS A DIRECTION, NOT A GOAL
- 27:45THROW AWAY YOUR FITBIT
- 31:05A NARRATIVE FAILS FORWARDS
- 35:12A NARRATIVE IS INTERDEPENDENT
- 38:46WEAVE GRACEFUL NARRATIVES







